I am not going to lie, I was scared to death facing my first ever surgical procedure. Lots of things came to mind and at times I was hopeless. It’s a frustrating time for me as I try to understand and cope. Lots of negative thoughts pierced my mind and pains my heart. The thought of missing out in my family’s life, my kids, my grandkids, family, and friends. My mind wandered into deep darkness at times as the date of surgery is approaching. However, I reminded myself that I am not alone in this journey. The love and support from my family and friends gave me the courage to face this challenge head-on. The medical team also reassured me that I am in good hands and that the procedure is routine. I realized that my fears were slowly slipping away and replaced with a sense of calmness. As I look back on my experience, I am grateful that I had the opportunity to overcome my fear and emerge a stronger person. One thing clear to me is that every obstacle we face in life has a purpose. We learn from our pain and struggles and become better versions of ourselves. I use my experience to encourage others who may be going through similar challenges. Never give up hope, have faith, and know that everything will work out for the best.